A liveaboard dive trip is one of the most immersive ways to go diving. Waking up to the sound of the ocean, exploring world-class sites multiple times a day, and spending evenings under the stars make it an unforgettable adventure. But if you’re travelling solo, it can feel a bit daunting at first—especially if you’re surrounded by divers who already seem to know each other.
While liveaboards bring together people with a shared passion for diving, the structured nature of the trip can sometimes make it tricky to naturally connect. There are fixed dive teams, set meal times, and a mix of personalities, from social extroverts to those who prefer quiet relaxation between dives. But the good news? Liveaboards are one of the best places to make new dive buddies—if you know how to break the ice.
Here’s how to connect with fellow divers and make the most of your first liveaboard trip as a solo traveller.
1. Choose the right liveaboard
Not all liveaboards have the same atmosphere. Some are geared toward challenging dive sites and serious photographers, where people may be more focused on the diving than the social side. Others attract a more laid-back, social crowd.
- Smaller boats (6-12 guests) tend to create a more intimate experience, making it easier to get to know everyone.
- Larger liveaboards (16+ guests) offer more variety in personalities but can sometimes feel cliquey if there are pre-formed groups.
Destination matters too—places like the Maldives, Thailand, and the Red Sea tend to have more social liveaboards, while technical destinations like Truk Lagoon or Bikini Atoll may attract more experienced divers focused on deep diving rather than socialising.
Check reviews and trip reports to get a feel for the atmosphere onboard before you book. Some liveaboards explicitly state that they cater to groups, solo divers, or first-timers.
2. Arrive a day early to meet other divers
If possible, arrive at your departure city a day before the trip starts. Many divers do this to avoid travel delays, and it’s a great opportunity to meet fellow guests before you even step onto the boat. Some liveaboards have a designated hotel where divers stay the night before, giving you a chance to grab a meal or a drink with future dive buddies.
3. Be open and approachable from day 1
The first day of a liveaboard sets the tone. When you board, introduce yourself to your cabinmate (if you have one) and join conversations in common areas. Something as simple as asking where people have dived before or what they’re most excited about on the trip can open the door to easy conversations.
If there’s an icebreaker or welcome briefing, use it as a chance to learn people’s names and interests. Most divers are friendly and happy to chat—it just takes that first step to break the ice.
4. Bring something to share or to start conversation
A small conversation starter can go a long way in helping you connect with others if you’re feeling a bit. Here are a few easy ideas:
- A deck of cards or a small travel game for downtime between dives.
- A GoPro or camera setup—people love sharing and comparing dive footage.
- Snacks from your home country to share with the group. Food is always a great way to bond!
- A logbook—many divers still enjoy logging their dives and sharing their experiences at the end of the day.
5. Get involved in group activities
Most liveaboards have group activities in the evenings, whether it’s a marine life presentation, fish ID session, or post-dive debrief. Attending these is a great way to interact with others and find common interests.
If you’re on a boat with a relaxed vibe, people may gather for drinks after dinner. Even if you’re not drinking, sitting with the group and chatting is a great way to connect. There may also be shore excursions you can join.
6. Be flexible with dive buddies
Many liveaboards assign dive buddies, but if you get the chance, be open to switching partners throughout the trip. Some divers travel in pairs and stick together, but others (especially divemasters and solo travelers) are happy to buddy up with different people. This is an easy way to get to know more divers in the group.
If you’re a confident diver, let the dive crew know you’re happy to buddy up with anyone who needs a partner. It’s a great way to meet different people on the boat, and having someone else to focus on can take your mind off any social nerves.
7. Take a dive course before your trip
A liveaboard is an incredible way to improve your diving skills, and having extra training under your belt can make you feel more confident from day one and more at ease on the boat.
Courses like SSI’s Perfect Buoyancy or Marine Ecology not only enhance your diving but also give you something to chat about with fellow divers. If you’re new to current diving, taking a drift diving specialty before your trip can help you feel more prepared, especially if your liveaboard is in current-heavy destinations like the Socorro Islands and Indonesia.
8. Check the cabin types on offer
Your choice of cabin can affect how easily you connect with others. Single cabins offer privacy but limit interaction, while twin cabins pair you with another traveller, making it easier to bond. Multi-person cabins create a more social atmosphere but may feel less private. Consider what suits your comfort level and social preferences.
9. Join a dive club
Being part of a dive club can help you meet other divers before you even step aboard. Some clubs organise liveaboard trips, allowing you to join as part of a group. This makes socialising easier but may also mean the group already knows each other. If you prefer a mix of familiar and new faces, joining a club-organized trip could be a great option.
10. Join online groups before your trip
Many liveaboard operators have Facebook groups or online forums where divers can connect before the trip. Joining these groups lets you introduce yourself, ask questions, and get a feel for who else will be onboard.
11. Learn a few words in the local language
If your liveaboard is in a destination where English isn’t the first language, learning a few basic phrases in the local language can go a long way. Even simple words like “hello,” “thank you,” and “great dive!” can help build connections with divers and the crew.
This article was written by Kathryn Curzon, a dive travel writer for SSI.
